RSVP – You Had To Be There is a phone-free party. In order to maintain this environment, all phones will be placed in pouches upon entering the venue. Guests maintain possession of their phones throughout the event and pouches do not block cell signal or texts; so your messages and likes will still be there when you exit. Forget capturing the moment for your social media friends that aren’t here and when they ask, just let them know You Had To Be There.